PinnedPublished inPrism & PenI Came to California to Protect Hillary Clinton, I Stayed for LGBTQ DreamsCalifornia afforded me the opportunities I needed to flourish, and she still amazes me with her beauty.Apr 224Apr 224
PinnedBreaking Free, a saga of self-discovery by a gay Secret Service AgentA deeply personal yet candid saga of a gay Secret Service Agent in the Obama era; an agent who was struggling with his own identity…May 14, 20238May 14, 20238
Published inPrism & PenI’m a Gay Former Secret Service Agent Trying To Find My Way in Dark TimesReconciling who I thought we were with who we really are, and the impact on LGBTQ communities.Nov 1027Nov 1027
Published inPrism & PenAs a Gay Former Secret Service Agent, Fatherhood is My Most Critical JobReconciling the precious new life before me and the one I call my own.Oct 104Oct 104
Published inBelovedSticking Up for Stay at Home DadsJune Cleaver would be impressed with the progress we’re making, or would she?Aug 712Aug 712
Published inPrism & PenAs Former Secret Service, I Protect My Family By Saying No to Anti-Gay NewsDeclining a national interview feels like accepting defeat. But I’m a gay man looking out for myselfJul 2126Jul 2126
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Published inBelovedAt Long Last, My First Father’s DayAfter years of missing out on the special day, you arrived just in time!Jun 1226Jun 1226
Published inPrism & PenAn Ode to My Chinese-Immigrant In-Laws During Pride MonthRecognizing their journey to acceptance, and appreciation for who they are.May 2729May 2729
Published inPrism & PenMy Love-Filled, Gay San Francisco WeddingOvercoming our fears and replacing them with love and acceptance.May 816May 816